Trust, verify, then leave them be


Episode 133

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Trust but verify, then leave them be.

That was the advice Angela Domhoff got from a mentor in her twenties, and it is the pearl from this week's episode. Angela spent more than 25 years in healthcare operations, on the payer side and inside large medical and surgical groups, and now works as a fractional chief operating officer. Her version has three steps: trust that the people you hired can do the job, verify that the work is getting done the way it needs to, and once you have seen it, step back. Each step protects something different. Verifying catches a problem before it surfaces months later in a claim or an audit. Stepping back protects the team from what Angela calls the absolute death of morale, which is micromanagement. Who on your team have you already verified, and still not left be?

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